Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Hi…can we talk?

Let's talk, everyone.
I'm known to be a very long talker. I talk and talk and talk and talk. But I won't bore you with that today.
Would you guys hate me if I started posting more than my dolls? Like, my dolls don't write the posts, I do? Or if I shared a little more of my personal life with you?

I'm honestly just trying to figure everything out.
I feel like so many people are leaving. Some people don't get the respect they deserve. Or don't feel needed.
I've been there. Not on my blog, but in regular life.
And it sucks.

When I started this blog, I didn't realize how difficult it was for some people to fit in. Tons of people who I admired got hate on their blogs. Their blogs. 
And I've gotten hate on mine, too.
I've received a few rude emails. Not enough to brag about, but. Still.
I've found that I don't really care. People can hate all they want.

I draw the line when people start leaving because they're hurt.
I can't stand seeing people upset.
It really ticks me off that some people - several people - don't post because of the haters.
Because of social bullying.

My blog is a safe place. I do not tolerate hate. And that goes to my blogger friends, as well. If you think you can get away with hating on my friends - you're so wrong.

I don't want to start a fight.

I don't want to get involved.

I just want to blog about my dolls. I didn't think that was so wrong.

Because apparently it is.

This is not about me. This is about my fellow bloggers.
You can send me rude emails, type obnoxious comments, unfollow me. But not on other blogs.

Just stop.

I don't understand why anyone would give other people a hard time. Don't you understand that, behind those screens, there are living beings? Living beings with feelings?


I don't want to get involved. But I have to.
I have to make it stop. Or at least try.

Congrats if you've read it this far! Here's a celebratory photo for you. :)

Please keep in mind what I've said.
And for the people who are leaving; it's your choice. I'm not here to change your mind. That's not the point of this post. Maybe you're sick of blogging or have no time.

To the haters: BACK OFF.
There are fabulous people out there just doing there thing, and then you have to go and ruin it. On my blog, it's fine. But quit hurting my friends.

Have a lovely day, and I will try to post more often. Stay fabulous.


P.S. Not to change the subject, but just to clarify, if you'd like to enter my photography challenge, my email is YES THERE ARE 2 S's. And I'm changing the due date to…septemeber 30th. Yay.


  1. I don't mind if you change your blog a little bit. My doll blog isn't always written by my dolls, sometimes it's me. And it's not always just dolls. Can I just post the picture on my blog instead of emailing it to you?

    1. Thank you! I was a little worried that people might be a little upset.
      Yes, you can totally post your picture instead (makes it even easier for me). Just be sure to title the photo so I know how to find it. :)

  2. aw, i'm sorry to hear you've gotten some rude emails. </3 no one deserves that.
    and i strongly encourage you to change up your blog a bit if you want to—i personally love when bloggers give readers an insight to their own lives, as it feels more...real, i guess one would say. :}

    1. Thank you. Yeah, it's a little sad that I've been getting some hate, but its alright. I don't let it bother me. :3
      Great. I've kind of felt…idk, forced to post in my dolls' point of view. I think I might be making a few changes. ;)

  3. *frantically gestures to post*
    This is so true.
    Very very true.
    But anyway, I think you should change it up if you want to.

    - Ellie

      thanks. :o) I think I'm going to change it up a little; not have it be specifically a doll blog. It's still going to be mainly a doll blog, but you guys will learn a little more about moi.

      xo Charlotte

  4. Yes! I agree with you so much! I have been blessed not to have any hate on my blog other than one derogatory comment, and I am so grateful! But yeah, people don't understand how they are affecting REAL people with feelings! Also, I'd be fine with you posting about things other than dolls! It's your blog, post what you want!:D

    1. Thank you! I'm lucky enough to have not received any rude comments on my actual blog, but in emails instead. Honestly it doesn't bother me, but I hate it when it happens to someone else. :( Exactly, there are REAL PEOPLE BEHIND THE COMPUTER SCREENS! Thank you so much for your support, you've always been awesome. :)

      xo Charlotte